Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.
There are only two hard things in Computer Science: cache invalidation and naming things.
Maybe after a few dozen failures and months or years of hard work, you might just be that next “overnight” success.
The Starter, the Architect, the Debugger and the Finisher, every software project that is remotely successful needs all four of these. If you can embody all of them in one person in the same project then all I can say is ‘lucky you’.
Men start faltering and exhibit a decline in mental performance as soon as they anticipate interacting with women. Interestingly, though, women face no such problems.